Fail only to succeed!
It there anyone who has not tasted defeat? All success stories are beset with failures before Ultimate success. It is nature for people to lose heart when face with failures. When we encounter failures they dampen our determination and leave indelible scare in our life. But failure does not emotionally disturb some. Beside their success towers over all the failures so we are led to believe that successful people never fail in any of their attempts. Let us not be under the impression that successful people have had a smooth course in life the fact is that people succeed only after making mistakes learning from them and by avoiding recurrence of the same mistakes. It is important that one should learn from failures and try to overcome one's shortcoming,
When we watch a tree with its sprawling branches and massive trunk. We are taken in by its grandeur and majesty but don't see the hidden roots that have struck deep into soil and that root are responsible for nourishment and strength of the tree. We notice the fruits of success of at person and not the struggle behind it we often mistake success as fortune and failure as effort while failure is a product of sluggishness miscalculations and sometimes unforeseen accidents. Success cannot be attributed to mere luck or fortune and it is a logical way of explaining the reward of labour.
Every failure can be a stepping stone to success provided we understand the cause of failure and overcome it. Failures are lessons in life. Life is a series of trials and errors and It is impossible for anyone to avoid errors and wish away trials. Show me a person whose life has been a complete failure in spite of honest effort? Show the right direction to proceed. If we are shy of fare failures we never hope to experiences success.
Lazy people neither succeed not do they face failure. For them life is stagnant since they don't really live but simply exist. Life is action and absence of action is nothing but living lifelessly. Do not be under any illusion that everything will happen the way you expect it to be sometimes it may happen, sometimes it may not. If things do not happen the way you expect it to you call it failure. Failure is in a sense the highway to success in as much as every discovery of what is false leads us to seek earnestly after what is true and every fresh experience points out some form of error which shall afterwards carefully avoid,
Don't grieve over failure. Make every failure an experience and learn the right lesson from it. When you start grieving over failures you miss the lesson they teach you. When you allow negative thoughts to crop up from failures you miss positive advantages inherent in it. Every failure has a cause and instead of rumination over failure analyses the cause. There in lies the lesson. The lesson you learn is positive advantage. Failure need not frighten you. A positive approach to failures will work as a springboard for you to leap towards success.
Success is the result of effort. All attempts may not result in success. Some efforts may fail but that should not deter us from making more efforts some people fearing their efforts may fail and avoid making attempts. Ceaseless effort, despite failures is perseverance. Men who persevere all through life alone become successful. Such people never give up in the face of odds and difficulties. They believe in hard work and have enough self confidence.
What is needed is we need to develop skills by constant practice and innovation and put them to more advantageous use people who fail to identify opportunities never succeed. Man with the power of reasoning should make the right choice develop necessary skill, work diligently and succeed in his undertakings. Conditions of life may not always be to our liking, it is for us to change the conditions to suit our needs and that is possible only when we develop appropriate skills. Efficiency in any work is a matter of diligent practice and willpower. Only then nothing is impossible to achieve. For that we need a positive approach to life.
What is important is that w should learn the right lesson from our failures. Anyone who has the inclination to learn from his failure can be sure of making a success story of his life. Success in life is a matter not so much of talent or opportunity as of concentration and perseverance,
Believe in your own resources and abilities a strong idea accompanied by strong thoughts and suitable action is capable of great achievements.
Failure is yet another opportunity to start afresh again making every failure an experience and learn the right lesson from it, and think positive every dark cloud has a silver lining
Yours truly,
Raj Ghale
Doha-Qatar
